When I picked up this book I really expected it to be a "where I am now a decade after my kidnapping" kind of book. There was that element to it, but it was so much more. Ms. Smart interviewed numerous people who have been through great difficulty and came out on the other side whole and thriving. Please allow me to use some quotes from her book to whet your appetite: "Every time I speak, I talk about how each one of us goes through his or her own trials. I try to tell people that it's not what happens to us that makes us who we are, but how we react, the choices we make moving forward. It doesn't matter what our current struggle is; it's what we do about it. But there's a long road between knowing that and putting it into practice." page 67 Ms. Smart interviewed Diane Von Furstenberg who said, "I met a very interesting woman, and she said that there are two types of survivors: the ones who did not die, and the ones who live. Th...