We're moving into the season of donating money, time, and goods in part to lighten our own load and, hopefully, do some good for others less fortunate. Before you decide to donate your used items to your local library, women's shelter, rescue mission, etc here are a couple of things that you may not think about if you have never been on the receiving end of such donations. Before you give your item to the library, women's shelter, rescue mission, etc, look at it with the eyes of the person receiving it. Seriously, if you would be grossed out or offended if you received those books, clothes, baby gear, etc chances are really great that the person on the receiving end will not feel blessed by your "gift." Before you give your item to one of the aforementioned charities, ask yourself if you'd be willing to pay to have it hauled away with the recyclables or trash. Your "gift" is more than likely costing your charity of choice money to have it hau...